Frustrated

Dear Demi

I recently broke up with my long term boyfriend (3 years) and I feel really lonely and clingy. I have no children and I live in a different city from most of my family. I'm hanging out with guys that I'm not even interested in just so I dont feel lonely...Help!


Demi:

Dear Frustrated

I know exactly how it feels to think that you're lonely. What you need to do is, get yourself a hobby or take advantage of doing some things that you haven't done in a long time, i.e. going to the library and getting a real spicy book or going to the park to enjoy being a kid again. Basically this is the time to find yourself. A man doesn't complete you and vice versa, so you shouldn't feel dead or lonely with out a man. This may be a good time for you to reconsecrate yourself to God--figure out your purpose in life. Take advantage of this "alone" time because there are some other women out there wishing they were you.